The life of a person is based on the perception he or she has regarding anything. So, it is
based on the perspective of the person regarding any situation, event, or work that person does. Most people's lives are not based on the true meaning of events; rather, they are based on the perceptions of everything or from every perspective.

More easily, we judge everything based on our experience, intelligence, and perception. We never take the words as they are but try to get the meaning according to our judgment. Also, we never see the situations as they are but we relate them with experience and again perception.

The significance and gravity of any individual's thought vary depending on the emotional connection and the person's need to listen to that thought. Similarly, any event or situation will vary from person to person because it has different meanings and importance.

We live in a virtual reality in which we assign different meanings to different people's situations and thoughts. The idea as a whole is not perceived as the person's real narrative but is taken up based on our experience and perception of that idea or thought. Eventually, there is a building of the perception of mind for any individual or situation based on past experience and connectivity.

Life is never based on the real meaning of the thought, idea, or event; rather, it is heavily based on the experience and connectivity of the perceiver.

Life has become a virtual reality for people, where they perceive things and events and the thoughts of other people according to their connectivity and experience, never based on what that particular person wanted to save for that particular event. Despite the fact that it is not based on what we want from the event of that specific thought of the person, it is a combination of past experiences, present experiences, and perception, and is based on the intelligence of the mind.

It is not an issue or problem to be resolved because it is human nature to perceive things according to our experiences with and connections to that particular event or person. From the past to the present, every individual has a different perspective on things based on their experiences, not the true meaning they have. 

But there is a need to have a conscious mind to have second thoughts whenever things go wrong, and it may have nothing to do with the perception of the mind to see things in a particular way, whether it is positive or negative. To live a balanced life with the various situations and people around us, perception must be reviewed.